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Transforming Your Marriage By Breaking All The Rules
From The Desk Of Cody Butler,
If you’ve been looking for ways to save your marriage, you’ve probably heard the same advice over and over—go to therapy, work on communication, and always put your partner first.
While there’s some truth in these ideas, they’re not the only way, and they’re certainly not always the most effective path to building a lasting, loving relationship.
I’ve worked with thousands of couples over the past 20 years who followed all the traditional rules and still found themselves stuck, frustrated, and disconnected.
That’s because real transformation doesn’t come from doing more of the same—it comes from breaking the rules that keep you trapped in unhealthy patterns.
What I’m about to share with you challenges the status quo, but it’s been so effective that even marriage therapists are turning to us, recommending our approach over traditional therapy.
These strategies might surprise you, but they’ve helped countless couples reconnect, rebuild trust, and reignite their love for each other.
So here are 6 ideas that may just save your marriage!
1. Your Marriage Isn’t Broken—But Your Mindset Might Be
I often hear people say, "My marriage is broken," but in most cases, that’s not true. The relationship itself isn’t broken—it’s the way we’re looking at it.
When You Change How You See Your Marriage, The Marriage You See Changes.
Let me share a story from Stephen Covey’s "7 Habits of Highly Effective People"...
It’s about a man on a train with his children running wild, bothering everyone around them.
Passengers were growing more and more frustrated.
Finally, someone spoke up, asking the man why he wasn’t controlling his kids.
He looked up, almost in a daze, and said, "We just came from the hospital where their mother passed away. I don’t know how to handle it, and neither do they."
Immediately the passengers experienced a change of attitude towards the family and their anger and frustration evaporated.
The situation didn’t change—the children were still noisy—but the way the passengers saw the situation completely shifted.
They went from being annoyed to feeling deep empathy and understanding.
The same is true in relationships. Sometimes, the solution doesn’t come from changing your partner, but from changing the way you see things.
Davids Case Study:
How A Change in Perspective Changed His Marriage
David had been married for 12 years, and over time, he found himself feeling frustrated and disconnected from his wife.
It seemed like they were constantly at odds, unable to communicate the way they used to.
He felt like his efforts weren’t being appreciated, and he was convinced that unless she made some big changes, their marriage was heading toward failure.
When David reached out for help, he thought the solution was simple: his wife needed to change.
But as we talked, I asked him a question that made him pause: What if it’s not about her changing?
What if the key to transforming your marriage lies in how you’re seeing it?
At first, David was unhappy with my suggestion.
He believed he had done everything he could to save the marriage, and that his wife was the one who wasn’t trying.
But after some reflection, he decided to give it a chance.
Instead of focusing on what his wife wasn’t doing, he started to focus on how he showed up in the relationship.
Something remarkable happened.
As David began to shift his perspective, he realized how much he had been holding onto his frustrations and pushing his wife away—without even knowing it.
When he changed how he saw their relationship, he softened.
He stopped approaching every conversation with defensiveness, and instead, began to listen more, speak with empathy, and let go of the need to control the outcome.
That softening was the turning point.
David’s wife, who had been distant and disengaged, began to respond.
She noticed the changes in him—not just in his words, but in his demeanor.
He wasn’t as rigid or reactive anymore, and she felt safer opening up. Slowly, the walls between them came down.
They started communicating more openly, spending more time together, and rebuilding the emotional connection they thought they had lost.
David realized that it wasn’t about forcing change in his wife—it was about changing himself first.
And once he did, the marriage began to transform.
Finding The Small Hinges That Swing Big Doors
David’s story shows that sometimes the biggest shifts happen when we soften, not by changing our partner.
His wife didn’t suddenly become someone different, but when David changed his approach, it created space for her to come closer, to feel understood, and to want to reconnect.
If you’re feeling stuck in your relationship, it might not be about waiting for your partner to make the first move.
Real change can start with you, and the ripple effect of that softening can shift the entire dynamic of your relationship.
A Simple Shift Can Transform Everything
When you begin to see your relationship through a new lens, the way you respond to challenges, communicate, and connect all shift.
It’s not about doing more or trying harder...It’s about changing the story you’re telling yourself about your marriage.
I’ve seen this approach transform so many relationships.
The best part?
It doesn’t require your partner to be involved right away.
It starts with you—and that’s a powerful place to begin.
2. Why Putting Your Partner First is Ruining Your Relationship
There’s a common belief that in order to have a successful marriage, you need to prioritize your partner above all else—make sure their needs are met, be there for them 24/7, and sacrifice your own desires to keep the peace.
But what if that’s not the answer?
What if putting yourself first is actually the key to a stronger, healthier relationship?
Sarah’s Story:
Replenishing Herself to Rebuild Her Marriage
Take Sarah, for example. She had spent years putting her family first.
Between working full-time, caring for her two young kids, and supporting her husband, she was exhausted.
Sarah’s life had become a cycle of doing everything for everyone else and leaving no room for herself.
She thought that by being selfless, she was doing what was best for her marriage and her family. But over time, she started to notice something: she had nothing left to give.
She was emotionally drained, constantly fatigued, and found herself feeling resentful.
Her husband, who used to be her closest partner, now felt like another responsibility, another person she needed to take care of.
The emotional distance between them grew, and Sarah couldn’t figure out why.
When we began working together, Sarah admitted that she felt like she was on the verge of burnout.
She didn’t understand how her relationship had gotten to this point, considering how much she had sacrificed for it.
That’s when I introduced her to the idea of "Enlightened Self-Interest".
I asked her, "What would happen if you started prioritizing yourself?
Not in a selfish way, but in a way that allows you to replenish your energy, your joy, your health?"
At first, she pushed back fiercely.
Like many of us, Sarah had been conditioned to believe that putting herself first was wrong.
But as we continued our conversations, she started to see that by taking care of herself—by investing in her own well-being—she could actually be a better wife, mother, and person overall.
So, she began to change her mindset.
She started taking time for herself each day, even if it was just 20 minutes to exercise, read, or meditate.
She made space for activities that brought her joy and fulfillment.
Slowly, she felt her energy return, her mood improve, and she became more present in her marriage.
From Empty To Overflowing
When Sarah started focusing on herself: her relationship with her husband improved.
The more she nurtured her own happiness, the more she had to give in her marriage.
She became more patient, more compassionate, and more engaged.
Her husband noticed the difference and responded positively to the changes.
It Wasn’t That Sarah Stopped Caring About Her Husband—She Just Stopped Neglecting Herself.
And by putting her own oxygen mask on first, she became the partner she had always wanted to be.
Her marriage wasn’t suffering because she wasn’t doing enough for her husband—it was suffering because she wasn’t doing enough for herself.
Mastering The Art Of Enlightened Self-Interest Is The Key To Strengthen Your Marriage
The lesson from Sarah’s story is simple: you can’t give what you don’t have.
By taking care of yourself—your health, your happiness, and your personal goals—you become a better version of yourself.
And the better you are for yourself, the better you can be for your partner.
At Better Marriage, we teach couples how to apply this concept of enlightened self-interest.
Through our unique approach, you’ll learn how to prioritize yourself in a healthy, balanced way that ultimately benefits your relationship.
It’s not about being selfish—it’s about recognizing that ONLY when you are fulfilled, your relationship can flourish.
If You’ve Been Feeling Drained, like Sarah Did, It’s Time To Ask Yourself: How Can I Start Putting My Own Oxygen Mask On First?
3. Divorce-Proof Your Relationship by Embracing Selfishness
We’ve been taught that selfishness ruins relationships, that love means putting the other person first, sacrificing our own needs for the sake of our partner’s happiness.
But what if I told you that a certain kind of selfishness could actually strengthen your marriage and divorce-proof your relationship?
Yes, you read that right.
Self-prioritization—what some might call "selfishness"—is one of the most powerful ways to ensure your relationship stands the test of time.
This isn’t about neglecting your partner’s needs, but about understanding that focusing on your own growth, fulfillment, and happiness is essential for long-term success.
Let me share a story that shows how embracing this kind of selfishness can change everything.
How Embracing Selfishness Saved Emily’s Marriage
Emily was in a place that many married people find themselves after years of being together.
She had spent most of her marriage putting her husband and children first.
She thought this was the right thing to do—sacrifice her time, her goals, and even her passions to keep the family running smoothly.
Over time, though, it took it's toll.
She was exhausted.
The things that used to bring her joy—her hobbies, her dreams, her ambitions—had faded into the background, and she felt like she had lost a part of herself.
Her relationship with her husband was strained, and the emotional intimacy that once brought them close had all but disappeared.
Emily felt stuck.
She had given everything to her marriage, so why was it falling apart?
When Emily reached out to me, she was desperate for answers.
I listened as she explained how she had done everything to make her marriage work—putting everyone else’s needs above her own.
That’s when I told her something she wasn’t expecting: "You need to embrace a little selfishness."
She was shocked
Like so many others, Emily thought selfishness was the enemy of love.
But I explained that healthy selfishness—the kind where you invest in your own happiness and growth—was not just important, but essential.
I asked her to reflect on this: How can you be the best version of yourself in your marriage if you’re constantly running on empty?
At first, Emily pushed back.
How could focusing on herself improve her relationship?
But after some thought, she realized that she had neglected her own needs for so long that she had nothing left to give to her marriage.
Emily began to carve out time for herself. She started going for long walks in the morning, which helped her clear her mind.
She rekindled her love for painting—something she hadn’t touched in years.
She even started working towards a personal goal she had put on hold for too long.
Something remarkable happened as she embraced this new approach.
The more Emily focused on her own growth and fulfillment, the better she felt.
She was happier, more confident, and more engaged in life.
And her husband?
He noticed the change.
The distance between them began to close, and they started connecting emotionally again.
Instead of draining herself to keep the relationship afloat, Emily found that by investing in herself, she had more energy and positivity to bring into the relationship.
Her husband was drawn to her renewed sense of purpose and happiness, and their relationship began to flourish.
When Intelligently Used, Selfishness Is A Tool for Relationship Success
Emily’s story isn’t unique.
So many people believe that selflessness is the only way to maintain a healthy marriage, but in reality, the key to a long-lasting, thriving relationship is a certain type of selfishness.
By focusing on your own personal fulfillment and growth, you become a better partner.
When you are fulfilled and happy within yourself, you naturally bring more positivity and connection into your relationship.
The Better Marriage Approach To A Better Marriage
Our program teaches you (and your spouse) how to prioritize yourself in a way that actually enhances your marriage.
It’s not about putting your partner last—it’s about understanding that when you focus on your own well-being, your partner benefits, your relationship flourishes, and you avoid the burnout that often leads to emotional distance or even divorce.
If you’re finding yourself constantly giving and never feeling replenished, take a moment to reflect on Emily’s story.
Ask Yourself: What Could Happen In My Relationship If I Came From A Place Of Abundance Instead Of Exhaustion?
4. Stop Trying to Make Your Partner Happy, It's Doesn't Work
It’s not your job to make your partner happy.
True, lasting love doesn’t come from trying to meet every need or wish of your spouse.
It comes from two fulfilled individuals, each responsible for their own happiness, coming together to build something even greater.
When you’re fulfilled on your own, you naturally bring that energy into your relationship—without the pressure of trying to make your partner’s happiness your responsibility.
Let me share a story to illustrate how powerful this shift can be.
Mark’s Story: Letting Go of Responsibility for His Wife’s Happiness
Mark had been married to his wife, Karen, for over a decade.
From the moment they got married, Mark had one goal: to make sure Karen was always happy.
He took pride in doing everything he could to keep her smiling—planning surprise dates, fixing problems before they even surfaced, and going out of his way to make sure she never had a reason to feel sad or stressed.
But as the years went by, something changed. Despite all of his efforts, Karen wasn’t as happy as she used to be.
She seemed distant, often frustrated, and Mark felt like he was failing.
He worked harder to please her, but nothing seemed to work.
He started to wonder if their marriage was falling apart.
When Mark came to me, he was very frustrated.
He felt like he was carrying the weight of both his own happiness and his wife’s.
That’s when I shared with him a radical idea: “Mark, it’s not your job to make Karen happy. In fact, it’s impossible."
Mark didn't understant!
He had spent years believing that his role as a husband was to ensure his wife’s happiness at all costs.
But as we dug deeper, he started to realize that no matter how hard he tried, Karen’s happiness wasn’t something he could control.
Happiness is an inside job.
As Mark began to release the pressure he had placed on himself, he experienced something he didn't expect—relief.
He realized that by constantly focusing on Karen’s happiness, he had neglected his own.
He had stopped doing the things that made him feel fulfilled, thinking that if he could just make her happy, everything would fall into place.
Mark started making changes.
He began reconnecting with old hobbies and passions that he had let slip away over the years.
He took time to focus on his own personal growth and self-care, without feeling guilty for it.
And the result?
Not only was Mark happier, but because he wasn’t constantly trying to fix Karen’s feelings, there was less pressure on their relationship.
Karen noticed that Mark was more relaxed, more present, and, ironically, more attentive.
As he focused on his own fulfillment, the energy in their marriage shifted.
Karen started to feel more engaged, and the emotional distance between them began to close.
Mark had learned one of the most valuable lessons of all: When you’re fulfilled on your own, you show up as the best version of yourself in your marriage—and that naturally creates a stronger connection.
Self-Fulfillment Is The Key to Lasting Love
Mark’s story teaches us a powerful truth: Your partner’s happiness is their responsibility, not yours.
You can’t control how they feel, and trying to take on that burden often leads to frustration, resentment, and exhaustion.
What you can control is your own happiness—how you show up in the relationship, how fulfilled you feel, and how much of your true self you bring into the marriage.
At Better Marriage, we focus on helping you find that sense of self-fulfillment.
Through our unique approach, you’ll learn how to cultivate your own happiness, so you can show up as the best version of yourself in your relationship.
And when both partners are fulfilled and responsible for their own happiness, that’s when lasting love truly takes root.
Ask Yourself: Am I Trying To Make My Partner Happy, Or Am I Working On My Own Fulfillment?
5. How Arguing Can Save Your Relationship
It’s often said that fighting in a relationship is a sign that something is wrong
But here’s the truth: arguing—when done right—can actually strengthen your relationship, improve communication, and build trust.
No two people are going to agree all the time.
The real issue isn’t that arguments happen, but how they happen.
In fact, healthy arguing creates emotional safety in a relationship.
It shows that both partners feel comfortable enough to voice their opinions and express themselves freely.
When arguing stops altogether, it often means there’s no longer a safe space to voice concerns, or worse, one or both partners feel like sharing their thoughts is pointless.
The key isn’t to eliminate arguments, but to learn how to argue in a way that builds connection, rather than tearing it down.
Let me share the story of a couple who discovered this firsthand.
Dan and Melissa’s Story: Learning How to Argue Well
Dan and Melissa had been married for eight years when they hit what felt like an emotional brick wall.
Every time they had a disagreement, it quickly escalated into yelling, hurtful words, and long periods of cold silence.
The tension was unbearable, and eventually, they both started to avoid conflict altogether.
They thought that arguing was unhealthy for their marriage, so they decided to stop voicing their frustrations.
But instead of bringing them closer, this strategy pushed them further apart.
Without the freedom to express their thoughts or feelings, their connection withered.
Melissa felt unheard, and Dan became increasingly withdrawn.
They were convinced their marriage was broken because they couldn’t seem to communicate without it turning into a fight.
When they came to me, they told me they thought arguing was the problem.
But what I shared with them was that it wasn’t the arguing that was unhealthy—it was how they were doing it.
Avoiding conflict altogether was the real issue.
They had lost the emotional safety to express themselves, so their frustrations built up until they exploded.
I introduced them to the idea that conflict can be a tool for growth—but only if it’s done right.
The goal isn’t to avoid arguing but to learn how to argue well.
Arguing doesn’t have to mean yelling or saying hurtful things.
It can be a way to work through differences, clarify misunderstandings, and create deeper understanding in the relationship.
The Turning Point: Learning To Arguing With Purpose
Dan and Melissa were skeptical at first, but they decided to give it a try.
Instead of avoiding conflict, they committed to addressing their disagreements head-on, but with new rules in place.
They learned how to argue with respect—focusing on the issue at hand rather than attacking each other.
They started using phrases like, “This is how I feel,” instead of “You always do this.”
They also made a pact: no matter how heated the conversation became, they would always take a pause if emotions got out of hand, and return to the discussion when they both felt calmer.
Over time, something amazing happened.
Their arguments became constructive, not destructive.
They began to see that disagreements weren’t a threat to their relationship but an opportunity to better understand each other.
When Melissa voiced her frustrations about feeling unsupported at home, Dan didn’t take it as an attack anymore.
Instead, he saw it as a chance to make improvements.
Similarly, when Dan expressed his concerns about finances, Melissa listened without getting defensive.
In learning to argue well, Dan and Melissa didn’t just resolve their issues—they became closer.
They rebuilt the emotional safety in their relationship, knowing they could speak their minds without it leading to a fight or stonewalling.
Learn How To Use Conflict As A Tool For Growth
Dan and Melissa’s story shows us that arguments don’t break relationships—how we handle them does.
Avoiding conflict can lead to resentment, while healthy arguing builds emotional safety and trust.
When both partners feel free to express their concerns, knowing they’ll be heard without judgment, the relationship grows stronger.
At Better Marriage, we focus on helping couples learn how to embrace conflict as a tool for growth.
You don’t need to avoid arguments to have a strong marriage—you just need to learn how to argue in a way that deepens your connection.
If You’ve Been Avoiding Conflict, Ask Yourself: What Could Change In My Marriage If I Learned How To Argue Well?
What We Do At Better Marriage—And How We Can Help You
You’ve seen that lasting change in a marriage doesn’t come from avoiding arguments, trying to make your partner happy, or sacrificing your own well-being. I
nstead, it starts with shifting your mindset, focusing on your own fulfillment, and learning how to navigate conflict in ways that create connection, not division.
These aren’t just isolated strategies—they’re part of the broader approach we teach at Better Marriage.
Most people turn to traditional therapy because they think it’s the only way to save their relationship.
But often, therapy focuses on talking about problems, week after week.
While understanding your issues is important, what you really want are changes in behavior—the kind that create a stronger, healthier marriage.
At Better Marriage, we believe in action-oriented solutions that go beyond simply talking.
You can’t talk your way out of a situation you behaved your way into.
It’s about transforming how you show up in your marriage, not just having conversations about what’s wrong.
Our unique approach focuses on real, lasting change by giving you the tools to shift your mindset and your behavior—whether you’re working alone or as a couple.
How We’re Different from Traditional Therapy
Our approach at Better Marriage is fundamentally different from the typical therapy route:
Results-Oriented, Not Problem-Oriented: Traditional therapy often revolves around discussing problems week after week, without clear steps to move forward. At Better Marriage, we focus on solutions and behaviors that drive positive change. We help you take immediate action to improve your communication, deepen your emotional connection, and strengthen your relationship—no matter where you’re starting from.
For Individuals and Couples: If your spouse isn’t fully on board yet—or if you’re working on this journey alone—you can still create positive change. Many of our clients have started by applying these principles on their own and have seen dramatic improvements in their marriage. Of course, our program is equally powerful for couples working together, providing tools that benefit both partners. But the beauty of our method is that it doesn’t depend on waiting for your spouse to make the first move
Learn How to Argue Well: Conflict doesn’t mean your relationship is failing. In fact, as we’ve discussed, learning how to argue effectively—without tearing each other down—can be a powerful tool for building trust and emotional safety. At Better Marriage, we teach you the skills to turn arguments into opportunities for deeper understanding and connection.
Focus on Fulfillment, Not Sacrifice: We don’t believe that self-sacrifice leads to a better marriage. What we teach is that true fulfillment in a relationship comes from both partners feeling happy and fulfilled individually. When you stop trying to make your partner happy and focus on your own growth, you show up as the best version of yourself—and that’s what strengthens your relationship.
Mindset Shifts for Long-Term Success: Through our guided program, you’ll learn how to shift your mindset in ways that allow you to approach your marriage from a place of strength and clarity. You don’t have to wait for your partner to change—you can start making changes in yourself, and watch as that positively impacts your relationship.
Tools for Immediate Action: You’ll receive tools that you can implement immediately—tools that go beyond talk and theory. Whether it’s learning how to communicate better, handle conflicts constructively, or reconnect emotionally, you’ll have everything you need to create lasting change.
Support for Every Stage: Whether you’re navigating the journey alone or working with your spouse, Better Marriage is here to support you. We’ve helped thousands of couples, from those on the verge of divorce to those looking to take their already strong relationship to the next level.
Ready To Start Your Transformation Journey?
Then I Invite you to join us at Better Marriage and discover the powerful combination of relationship enhancement materials and live coaching that has transformed the marriages of thousands of couples.
The Value of Real Change
When couples first think about saving their marriage, many turn to traditional marriage therapy.
But let’s take a closer look at the real costs.
Traditional therapy can easily cost anywhere from $200 to $300 per session.
That’s $800 to $1,200 per month—and that’s just for one session per week.
Add in the stress of trying to find a time that works for both of you, taking time off work, driving to and from the therapist’s office, and sitting in waiting rooms, and it starts to add up.
Not just financially, but emotionally and mentally, too.
At Better Marriage, we’ve created a solution that not only delivers real results, but does so at a fraction of the cost—and with the convenience of virtual coaching.
For just $297 per month, you’ll have access to:
Live group coaching sessions: Guided by experts who specialize in the challenges and dynamics of both men and women, as well as couples.
Specialized male and female coaches: Providing insights tailored to your unique needs and experiences.
Relationship enhancement materials: Giving you practical tools and exercises you can work through in your own time.
A supportive community of people going through the same journey: Giving you accountability and fresh perspectives.
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The best part?
All of this is virtual, which means you don’t need to worry about squeezing in appointments or driving across town.
You can do this from the comfort of your home—whether you’re working on your relationship solo or with your partner.
All of this for only $297 per month for access to everything—a fraction of the $800 to $1,200 you’d spend on traditional therapy.
The Cost of Staying Stuck vs. the Cost of Real Change
At just $297 per month, Better Marriage gives you access to the tools, support, and coaching you need to create real, lasting change in your marriage.
Compare that to the $800 to $1,200 per month you’d spend on traditional therapy, and it’s clear that you’re getting an incredible value—without the hassle of scheduling and traveling to in-person sessions.
But even more importantly, think about the cost of staying stuck.
What would it mean for your marriage if things didn’t improve?
Can you put a price on the peace, connection, and happiness that comes from transforming your relationship?
The investment you make today is not just in your marriage—it’s in your future, your family, and your own well-being.
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MEET THE FOUNDER & CEO
Hi, I'm Cody
Cody Butler is a world-renowned Relationship Coach, recognized for his profound influence in the field of personal and relationship development.
With a global reach spanning 7 countries, Cody has helped over 5,000 couples rediscover connection, rebuild trust, and reignite love, using his unique, faith-based approach.
Featured on Fox News, bestselling author of three #1 Amazon books, and trusted by marriage therapists for his results-oriented methods,
Cody has set the standard for modern marriage coaching. Cody’s journey to becoming a leading expert wasn’t a straightforward one.
Before he began coaching, Cody was a highly successful entrepreneur who faced immense pressure and ultimately turned to alcohol to cope.
The struggles that followed took a toll on his life and led to the collapse of his marriage, leaving him battling anxiety, stress, and the inability to cope.
It was this deeply personal experience that sparked his transformation and ignited his passion to help others.
The lessons Cody learned during his own dark period are now the foundation of the life-altering programs he provides to men, women, and couples who want more than just superficial fixes—they want lasting change.
What makes Cody’s approach stand out in a crowded marketplace is his no-nonsense, practical approach.
He’s not here to sell quick-fix solutions or gimmicky scripts that claim to save marriages in 30 days. Cody’s programs focus on deep personal development because he believes the key to saving a marriage isn’t getting your spouse to change—it’s working on yourself.
This philosophy—"work harder on yourself than on your marriage"—has helped thousands of couples realize that their marriage wasn’t broken; it was their mindset and their approach that needed an overhaul.
Cody is the founder of Better Marriage, where he offers a range of personal growth and marriage enhancement programs, including his flagship "Reboot Your Marriage Bootcamp" and the "Platinum Membership", which delivers continuous, cutting-edge relationship content each month.
His teachings don’t just address the external symptoms of marital struggles but dive deep into the internal transformations necessary for true, lasting success.
Cody’s programs are known for being highly actionable, focusing on real-world results that couples can see and feel, often within days of starting.
Today, Cody is not just a relationship coach—he’s a mentor and guide, helping people break free from outdated relationship advice and embrace a new way of thinking.
Whether you’re working alone or with your partner, Cody’s programs are designed to meet you where you are and guide you toward a stronger, more fulfilling marriage.
Meet Your Team of Passionate Professionals
Personal Access To All of Our Coaches Are Included In Our "Monthly Membership"
Lama
Lama is a compassionate professional with a deep passion for supporting women on their personal growth journeys, she provides a safe environment where women can rediscover their voices, heal from emotional wounds, and thrive. Lama’s work transforms lives, guiding women toward a healthier, more fulfilling future.
Head of Women's Coaching
Jenny
Jenny is celebrating 50 years of marriage this year, bringing a lifetime of successful experience to her work. Passionate about supporting women and couples, she draws on her vast knowledge to help others build stronger, more fulfilling relationships. Jenny’s dedication and wisdom make her a trusted guide for those seeking lasting marital success.
Project Manager
Rob
Rob is a dedicated professional with a wealth of experience, providing a combined 100 years of wisdom alongside his wife, Jenny.
Together, they guide couples toward stronger, more fulfilling relationships, drawing on their shared lifetime of marital success to offer valuable insights and support.
Head of Couples Care and Leadership
Justin
Justin is a dedicated men’s coach specializing in personal development and success mindset. With a passion for helping men unlock their full potential, he guides them toward personal growth and a stronger, more fulfilled life. Justin’s work empowers men to embrace a mindset of success and achieve their goals.
Men's Marriage Transformation Coach
Rhoni
Rhoni is the Head of Customer Experience, dedicated to ensuring that your time with us is smooth and enjoyable.
With a focus on delivering exceptional service, Rhoni is committed to making every interaction positive and seamless.
Head of Custmer Experience
Cody
Cody is a highly respected Christian relationship coach who has helped over 5,000 couples in 7 countries rebuild and strengthen their marriages. As a bestselling author and trusted expert, Cody brings a no-nonsense, results-driven approach to marriage coaching, empowering couples to create lasting change through personal development and faith-based guidance
Head Marriage Coach
Alex
Alex is the Head of Men’s Pastoral Care, combining a wide array of qualifications with years of experience. His unique blend of cutting-edge education and practical expertise allows him to offer unparalleled support and guidance to men, helping them navigate personal and spiritual growth.
Head of of Men's Pastoral Care
Nigel
Nigel is a dedicated men’s marriage coach with a passion for helping men strengthen their relationships.
Drawing on his expertise, Nigel supports men in navigating the complexities of marriage, empowering them to create deeper connections and more fulfilling partnerships.
Mens Marriasge Coach
You'll Have Access To A Team Coaches Who Understand Your Unique Needs
One of the key benefits of Better Marriage is that you’ll have access to a range of expert coaches—each of whom specializes in different aspects of relationship building.
Whether you’re looking for guidance tailored to your unique situation as a man or a woman, or if you want to focus on couple-specific challenges, we’ve got you covered.
Unlike tradition "In-Person" therapy when you have access to one therapist who may or may not have first hand experience of your specific problems.
Male-specific and female-specific coaches: You’ll have access to coaches who specialize in the specific dynamics and challenges faced by men and women in relationships. Whether you’re looking to understand your partner better or working on your own personal growth, these coaches are here to help.
Couples sessions: We offer sessions specifically designed for couples, where you can work together with your partner and learn tools that enhance communication, trust, and intimacy.
Who's This Perfect For
Couples working together
Men Working Solo
Women Working Solo
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Frequently Asked Questions
How does Better Marriage work?
Better Marriage combines relationship enhancement materials with live group coaching to provide a comprehensive, action-driven approach to improving your marriage.
You’ll receive access to male-specific, female-specific, and couple-focused coaching, as well as an ever-growing library of tools, guides, and exercises to use at your own pace.
The program is designed to deliver real results through mindset shifts and practical actions, rather than just talking about problems.
How is group coaching different from one-on-one coaching?
Many people initially seek one-on-one coaching because they want personalized attention. However, group coaching offers several unique advantages:
Shared perspectives: Hearing from others in similar situations provides new insights and ideas you might not discover on your own.
Accountability and support: Being part of a group creates a built-in support system, keeping you motivated and engaged.
Real-time solutions: Our expert coaches make sure everyone’s challenges are addressed, and you’ll often learn valuable strategies from others’ experiences as well. The dynamic of group coaching leads to powerful breakthroughs and can be just as, if not more, effective than individual coaching.
Availabiity: We hold coaching sessions daily so you don't need to schedule a session and then wait when a problem happens. You're only ever a few hours away from support.
What if my spouse isn’t willing to participate or is reluctant?
That’s okay! You don’t need both partners to start making progress.
Many of our clients begin working on themselves first, and they quickly see positive changes in the relationship.
Often, one partner’s growth and mindset shift create a ripple effect that inspires the other to engage more over time.
Our program is designed to work for individuals or couples.
How does Better Marriage compare to traditional therapy?
Traditional therapy typically focuses on talking through problems, often at a high cost, with sessions once a week. Better Marriage takes a different approach:
-We focus on action and behavior changes, not just discussions.
-Our live coaching sessions are virtual, saving you time and money.
-You’ll have access to ongoing support and resources—not just weekly sessions—so you can implement changes in real time.
-Traditional therapy can cost $800 to $1,200 per month, while Better Marriage provides more comprehensive support for just $297 per month.
What is the 7-day free trial?
We offer a 7-day free trial so you can experience everything Better Marriage has to offer without any risk.
During the trial, you’ll have full access to our live coaching sessions, relationship enhancement materials, and community support.
If for any reason you don’t feel it’s right for you, you can cancel at any time during the trial with no obligations
How much time do I need to commit each week?
That’s entirely up to you! Our program is flexible and designed to fit into busy lives. You can attend live coaching sessions, work through the relationship materials at your own pace, and engage with the community as much or as little as you want.
Whether you have 30 minutes a day or just a couple of hours a week, you’ll find value in the program.
Is this program suitable for couples on the verge of divorce?
Yes! Better Marriage has helped many couples who were on the brink of separation or divorce.
Our approach focuses on addressing the root causes of relationship struggles and providing practical tools to rebuild trust, communication, and emotional connection.
Whether you’re at a crossroads or just looking to strengthen your marriage, this program is designed to meet you where you are.
What happens after I sign up?
Once you sign up, you’ll receive immediate access to the program. You’ll be able to:
-Join live coaching sessions with expert coaches.
-Access relationship-building materials and exercises.
-Start implementing strategies to improve your marriage right away.
You’ll also be welcomed into our community of like-minded individuals who are working on their relationships, giving you support and accountability from day one.
What if I can’t attend the live coaching sessions?
No problem! All live coaching sessions are recorded, so if you can’t make it, you can watch the replays at your convenience. You won’t miss any important insights or guidance
Can I cancel at any time?
Yes! You’re not locked into a long-term contract. If you decide that the program isn’t the right fit for you after the free trial or at any point during your subscription, you can cancel at any time with no penalty.
What kinds of couples can benefit from this program?
Our program is designed to help couples at all stages of their relationship—from newlyweds who want to strengthen their foundation to couples who have been together for years and are facing more serious challenges.
Whether you’re trying to reignite your connection or rebuild trust after years of distance, our tools and coaching will guide you toward positive changes.
Is there support outside of the coaching sessions?
Yes, in addition to live coaching, you’ll have access to our private community where you can ask questions, share experiences, and receive support from both coaches and fellow participants
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